Even with careful introductions of new pets, cat personalities can change over time, leaving both new and existing pets stressed. In some cases, cats may even feel pushed out by newcomers.

Cats are masters in subtle communication and often perceive things that go unnoticed by humans. Here are some common types of feline bullies you might encounter within your cat family:

The sandbox bully

Kittens, being naturally curious, might find it intriguing to watch an older cat use the litter box and may even attempt to pounce on them during this private time. This can lead to litter box aversions for the older cat.

The Food Network bully

Some cats are particularly sensitive to disturbances around their feeding areas, such as kitchen noises, changes in routine or even a look from a more dominant cat. A very shy cat can actually lose weight from feeling too threatened to eat.

The jock bully

In cases where one cat is larger or appears more confident (or just acts like he is), bullying might occur. Cats typically fare better in one-on-one play sessions. In group play, more assertive cats might dominate their less confident peers.

The Goldilocks bully

This bully seeks out the best sleeping spots, even if they’re already occupied. Merely sniffing a tail or staring can cause a lower-status cat to move on to less desirable areas, like beneath a bed. 

The jealous lover bully

This cat wants you all to himself. If you’re paying attention to another cat, he may glare, step in or even start a fight to drive the other cat away.

Bullying behavior doesn’t need to dominate your household. Here are some strategies to help mitigate feline bullying:

1. Provide ample resources

When introducing a new cat, you split your first cat’s territory in half. This includes litter boxes, scratchers, bedding, feeding stations, toys and even your attention. Ensure each cat has their own set of essentials, plus a few extras.

2. Spread out resources

Avoid placing litter boxes and food bowls in one area, as this can lead to competition over basic needs. Distributing these resources throughout your home can help reduce conflict triggers.

3. Act like a mama cat: 

A mother cat corrects her kittens with gentle cues like glances or trills. Instead of yelling or stomping to break up a fight—which can frighten all cats involved—try stepping calmly between them or moving gently towards the aggressor to defuse the situation.

4. Use rewards to shift behavior: 

After stopping an aggressive encounter, focus on reinforcing the bullied cat. Try petting or playing with them or offer treats to increase their confidence and status. This not only comforts the bullied cat but also teaches the aggressor that when they’re mean, the other cat gets rewarded—they don’t.

5. Spread the love

Make sure every cat feels valued and loved. Encourage the more reclusive cats to engage by dedicating time just for them, away from other pets.